Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate love—but what about those who have everything except a valentine? If you have a single friend, parent, or even yourself wondering why love hasn’t arrived yet, it’s time to swap wishful thinking for action. Here’s the truth: love does not drop from your living room ceiling, and hope is not a strategy.
Whether you’re single and searching or know someone who is, the best gift this Valentine’s Day isn’t another scented candle or gourmet chocolate—it’s the gift of real connection and a proven path to love. That’s exactly why my book, Get Married This Year, has been the go-to choice for people determined to transform their love lives.
The Valentine’s Day Gift That Changes Love Lives
At my book signings, I’ve met countless people gifting Get Married This Year with messages like:
- “She’ll probably kill me, but she needs this!”
- “My dad has been widowed for two years—it’s time for him to find love again.”
- “I bought this for my college student. She doesn’t need to get married tomorrow, but she should date with the right mindset.”
- “By next year, my son could have someone special to spend the holidays with.”
If you (or someone you love) is hoping to find a committed relationship but isn’t any closer to one, this book provides a practical, no-nonsense strategy to turn dating frustrations into real results.
Action Is the Best Medicine: How to Find Love This Year
If you’re stuck in the cycle of bad dates, ghosting, or just feeling invisible in the dating world, it’s time to make changes. The essential steps include:
- Keep and maintain self-confidence (or fake it ‘til you make it!)
- Declutter relationship deadwood (let over be over)
- Set up a successful self-marketing plan (never leave home without it!)
- Apply the “Flirt Like Crazy” rules to spark attraction
- Use “The Spouse Shopping List” to date only potential keepers (never bet on a horse that’s not in the race!)
- Be genuine—feeling loved starts with being understood
- Identify what attracted your past partners and keep that spark alive
Love Notes: Quick Tips for Singles Ready for Love
Here’s a sneak peek at some of the 74 Love Notes from the book—practical wisdom that can turn dating from a struggle into a success:
- A date is not a confessional or therapy session. Keep your worries and regrets off the table until you know they are genuinely interested in you.
- Prince and Princess Charming don’t make house calls. Go out at least three nights a week to meet new people.
- Put the same initiative into finding love as you would for a dream job. Your self-presentation and mindset matter—believe you deserve love!
- Dating is not a funeral. Potential partners are drawn to happiness. Laugh, smile, and bring positive energy to your dates.
- Smiling is mandatory. If you’re out of practice, start with furniture, pets, or kids—then work your way up to adults.
- Dress for the relationship you want. Make an effort to look your best every day. You never know who you’ll meet!
- Not every rough stone has a diamond inside. If a relationship feels like hard work from the start, stop excavating and move on.
- Within five dates, you should know when to hold ’em, fold ’em, walk away, or run. Don’t waste time on the wrong person.
- It’s easier to reach for the stars when someone is holding the ladder. Love thrives when you and your partner lift each other up.
The Bottom Line: Love is Out There, But You Have to Find It
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a reminder of what’s missing—it can be a catalyst for change. The best gift for any single person who’s ready for love? A roadmap to finding it.
So, whether you’re shopping for a friend, a family member, or yourself, Get Married This Year is more than a book—it’s a game plan for real love and real results.
Ready to find love? Don’t wait another year—grab your copy of Get Married This Year today and start your journey to love! Buy Now
